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ENTITY reports on how to go about keeping dream girl.

So you’ve read our article on how to get the girl of your dreams. And you did it. Congrats! But now you’re probably wondering, how do I keep this fine lady?

Well, yet again, ENTITY is here to help. You don’t need to be super rich or take her on private helicopter rides like you see on “The Bachelor.” Ultimate rule: Just be yourself and show interest.

Here are some tips from reddit on how you can keep your dream girl now that you’ve landed her:

1 Help them be their best selves.

ENTITY reports on how to go about keeping dream girl.

“Know your own personality quirks and your spouse’s. Anxieties, sensitivities, etc. Each must tolerate the other’s. And if you can, help your spouse in dealing with hers and let her help you in dealing with yours. In the long term, you’ll help each other grow, and help the relationship grow.”

The amazing thing about being human is that we all have different personalities and likes/dislikes. Making a relationship work requires truly knowing your partner and the different aspects of their personality. Ultimately, you need to know what makes them them.

And sometimes, people come with baggage and issues they need to deal with. A key element to being a good partner and keeping your girl around is helping her be her best self. Supporting her, loving her and helping her improve upon herself will show that you are committed to her and her growth as a human, which is all that you could ask for from a partner.

2 Remember to actually listen.

ENTITY reports on how to go about keeping dream girl.

“Take the blame off the other person. Just listen to him/her… and ACTUALLY listen, not thinking about what you want to say once he/she finishes talking. Communication will always be #1, but think of yourself as an active listener: Do your body language and facial expressions convey that you are interested?”

Communication is key in any relationship. And an active part of having good communication skills is being able to listen. Hearing the other person and listening to how they are feeling will help your relationship flourish.

Actively listening will allow you to respond better to your partner, and will help the conversation be productive. Additionally, it will show your partner that you care, and will help them relax and be able to understand your feelings.

3 Do your own thing every now and then.

ENTITY reports on how to go about keeping dream girl.

“Maintain your sense of self and autonomy. Do your own thing sometimes so you can miss each other and come back together with fresh eyes and an eagerness to share and connect. Constantly being together and doing everything together breeds comfort and familiarity and eventually, monotony, which kills the spark.”

Although it’s easy to want to be with your partner 24/7, it’s important to have your own hobbies and interests. Being able to get away from your partner for a little bit and do your own thing helps to keep you interested in each other.

When you aren’t with that person 24/7, you have things to ask them about and they have stories to tell you. It helps you continue to be individual people, and keep the interest you initially felt towards that person. It’s easy to get into a routine and start getting easily annoyed with someone when you spend every waking second with them.

4 Remember you’re with that person for a reason.

ENTITY reports on how to go about keeping dream girl.

“Sometimes during arguments/serious discussions, a million shitty things will come into your head before you even consider saying something kind to your partner. But a simple ‘I love you’ can really go a long way — even if you don’t FEEL love for them at the time.”

Remember why you wanted to be with that person in the first place. Maybe it’s their personality, their interests, the connection you feel, etc. There was something that initially attracted you to that person and made you want to learn more about them.

It’s important to remember all the aspects you love about this person, even in the worst of times. When we fight with someone, we only see the negative aspects of them. Thinking about their positive attributes will help you remember what it is about them that you love. Then you will remember why you want to continue working at the relationship.

5 Make sure you are on the same page about the future.

ENTITY reports on how to go about keeping dream girl.

“We continue a lot of the stuff that we did when we first met. We still go on regular dates, talk, cuddle, joke around, laugh, fuck, tease each other, etc. And in addition to all that, we plan for our future, whether it be short-term (local events, traveling) or long-term (career stuff, buying a house, getting married).”

Something great to do to show your partner that you are committed to the relationship is plan with them. Whether it be something small like a movie night, or something large like moving in together, making plans and looking into the future with that person shows that you are serious about the relationship.

However, a key part of this is actually FOLLOWING THROUGH on the plans you make. Be truly committed to the plans you make. You can make all the plans you want, but if you fall through on them, it shows you aren’t truly committed. This will make your girl think twice about being with you.

Ultimately, the key takeaway is that you just need to put in some effort. Show an interest in her hobbies, actually listen to her and try to remember why you wanted to be with her in the first place.

Being there, being supportive and being a shoulder to lean on will get you very far. Women are not as complex as you think they are, trust me.

If you’re having trouble doing some of the things listed, then maybe it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship. Check out ENTITY’s article and see if it’s time for you to let that person go.

Edited by Kayla Caldwell
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