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ENTITY explains when to say I love you

Many of us have faced our fear of saying “I love you” to a significant other. Will the relationship end? Will I be alone in the way that I feel? Is there a certain time frame, or is it a certain feeling? Knowing when to say “I love you” can be the most frightening part of any relationship.

Is there a quick, easy answer that will help to avoid premature embarrassment?

ENTITY explains when to say I love you

Well, sort of. To put it simply, you’ll know when you’re ready.

It’s hard to believe that a difficult question such as this would have such a vague answer, but it really all depends on the person. You may not be ready or it might be the right time, but only you’d know for sure.

Here are a few simple-sounding tips to help you figure out that complicated question.

Take Your Time

ENTITY explains when to say I love you

You don’t want to put your feelings on a time limit or rush yourself into believing that you should be feeling a certain way due to how much time has passed. You want the first time you express your love to feel genuine. It shouldn’t feel forced because you think you should feel a certain way.

Just remember that everybody reaches that point in their own time.

As relationship expert Trina Leckie told Elite Daily, “Once you start setting time rules on it, the moment loses its authenticity.”

Don’t Be Afraid to Say How You Feel

ENTITY explains when to say I love you

However, you’re also probably considering how your significant other is feeling. The last thing you want is to say “I love you” and not hear it back.

It sucks if you pour out your feelings and your significant other doesn’t feel the same, but don’t sweat it. According to Elite Daily, everyone reaches this phase at a different point and that’s okay!

There are many reasons why somebody might not get to that point quickly. It may be due to something in a past relationship, or it could just be the way they sort out their feelings. Just as your relationship isn’t on a timetable, an individual person isn’t either.

Take a Chance

ENTITY explains when to say I love you

The idea of love is a gamble. Emotions are scary and exhausting, so you might put off sharing how you feel.

It’s easier said than done, but there’s no harm in sharing how you feel. If you take that chance, you’ll feel better knowing that you let your significant other know exactly how you feel.

On the plus side, if your significant other does say it back, you’ll be happy that you took the leap of faith. Not only will it feel better to have it out in the open, but you’ll feel better knowing that you shared your feelings with your partner.

If you feel ready to declare your love, then go for it. If not, take your time and don’t feel like you have to rush to say those three words.

Whether it’s three months or three years, you’ll feel better knowing that you did what’s best for you. Let your feelings be the deciding factor on whether you’re ready to scream “I love you” from the rooftops or not.

Edited by Carli Velocci
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