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Entity teaches you how to be happy by accepting your flaws and personality.

My nose is too big? I hate my thin hair. Why am I so unartistic? I need to have that woman’s waist. If these thoughts or similar ones race in your mind as fast as a 4-year-old kid runs to the playground, then you need a wake up call! Constantly thinking about your flaws can only cause mental exhaustion and unhappiness.

Everyone was born with different qualities, so do you really expect every single person to be the same? In fact, do you really want everyone to be the same? What a boring world that would be! So instead of dwelling on your flaws, accept them for what they are or make a commitment to change them. Here are five reasons accepting your flaws will make you happy.

1 You’ll stop criticizing yourself and others.

You’ll always be a critic if you constantly focus on your flaws. When you’re not happy with a quality in yourself, you’re quick to judge others with the same quality. Simply put – when you’re against something, you become negative. As stated by Bustle, it’s better to be for something than against it. When you’re for something, you are inspired, unified and energized! After all, it’s much more tiring to dwell on things you can’t change.

2 You’ll overcome your insecurities.

As stated by Lifehack, calling your personal characteristics “awkward” is only awkward if you don’t accept yourself. You must embrace – not hide – what makes you unique. Instead of trying to disguise your flaws, you should flaunt them. In turn, your insecurities will be put to rest because you’ll feel comfortable with who you are.

3 You’ll build confidence.

The most effective way to diminish your confidence is to focus on your flaws with a negative lens. Instead, why not use your flaws to boost your self-esteem? Live Bold and Bloom advises that you gather everything you might dislike about yourself and embrace them as a parent would embrace a child. Once you do so, your character and emotional maturity will improve and strengthen.

4 You’ll learn self-love.

We all know haters gonna hate, but what’s the point of directing this hate toward yourself? There’s no need to bash on your flaws when life is already a roller coaster. Learn to love what you have! After all, the qualities you hate are probably the ones people love the most about you! As stated in All Womens Talk, what you believe is a flaw is often what other people would pay to have.

5 You’ll find yourself.

When you focus on who you are, everything else will fall into place. According to WisdomTimes, embracing your flaws allows you to discover who you truly are instead of worrying about who you think you are. There’s a big difference between knowing and thinking. When you know who you are, you will surely notice the difference in your life.

Instead of focusing on your flaws, learn to take on the world with confidence. Be bold because you (flaws and all) are all you’ve got! Embrace what you were born with and let the haters know that they can take it or leave it!

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