ENTITY reports on let him go

You’ve been on a roller coaster ride of emotions.

You’ve danced through the incessant swing of letting go and holding on.

You’re exhausted from the relationship but aren’t just ready to throw in the towel and say, “I’ve had enough.”

ENTITY reports on let him go

You are still in love – truly, madly, deeply – but you feel these emotions slowly start to drain out of your heart.

Your heart has been running on an almost empty tank from giving and giving without receiving anything back in return.

You are aware that in any successful, fulfilling and meaningful relationship, it is not just about giving and taking but about willingly and enthusiastically giving and receiving love and respect.

You find that, at this time, you are the only one participating in this formula.

ENTITY reports on let him go

Your heart is tired, drained, exhausted and, yet, you still want to go on, to hold on to anything that can give you hope that everything will work out just fine in the end.

You feel compelled to hold on because you love him and, somehow, you are hoping he will come around from giving you the silent treatment.

Somehow you still believe that your love will be enough to get you through and turn things around.

You still hope that his passion for you will return if you are just patient enough to wait. “Give him just a little more time and he will be the person that he once was,” you tell yourself.

But that person has long been gone, and you are left on your own.  He may still be physically present with you, but his passion for you has slowly diminished, if not altogether extinguished.

ENTITY reports on let him go

“You still love him,” you can hear your heart saying.

“Let him go and move on.  Don’t hold on anymore to something that is no longer there,” your mind says.

“Easier said than done,” you reply.

At this point, you know that it is better not to follow your heart and instead heed the wisdom of your mind. Sometimes it is better to stick with what you know is the right thing to do than to follow your heart.

You feel conflicted. Torn apart by what you feel and what you think is right.

You cry yourself at night hoping that tears would ease your pain, hoping that, in the morning, everything will go back to what it was. Yet you wake up drained and exhausted and still feeling empty and disconnected.

However, today, you decided to do something.

ENTITY reports on let him go

Today, you decided to walk away from all the drama that is slowly unfolding in your life.

You realized you had enough. Enough of the silent treatment; the alibis, lies and excuses; of being ignored and neglected. Enough of the feeling that it is your fault.

You gave him the power that made you feel you are not good enough.

Today, you are taking your power back. Tell yourself you are good enough. Not too much, too intense,  too empathetic, too obsessive, or too emotional.

Today, you remind yourself that you love him, but you are letting him go.

You are letting him go because you realized you are not the one who can give him the love he needs, that you just cannot force him to stay.

You are letting him go because you are creating a space in your life for love to grow back for yourself and a space for those who are capable of loving you as much as you love them.

Most importantly, you are letting him go because you finally realized your worth and that you deserve better.

You love him still, but you realized that you need to love yourself first in order for you to love others well. And letting him go is good for your well-being and it is not being selfish. It is called self-care.

You love him, but it’s time to say goodbye.

But if you’re not strong enough to let go, remember your worth.

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You don't need someone else to make you happy.
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It's not your fault if you're too much for someone.
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You don't need someone to complete you.
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You deserve someone who will fight for you.
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Don't waste your time on someone who won't fight for you.
Edited by Nicole Sazegar

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