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Relationships July 5, 2017
Love is supposed to be fun isn't it?
Are you an unlucky lady when it comes to love, but still think Prince Charming is right around the corner? Believing in an ideal love can be rough — and after enough bad apples you probably feel more like a literal hopeless romantic than a hopeful one, especially when you hear about how great your friends’ love lives are.
And with hopeless romantic quotes like “Right now, someone you haven’t met is out there wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you,” it’s no wonder you’re so in touch with your sensitive side. Which can sometimes be a downer.
After all, life usually isn’t a hopeless romantic movie (even though sometimes we want it to be).
How do you stop feeling this way? Thankfully, Reddit users are always happy to share some advice. Here’s ENTITY’s roundup of answers to the question: How do I stop being a hopeless romantic?
“I need your advice. Ever since I was a little kid, I’ve always been the romantic one fantasizing about getting a girlfriend and living happily ever after blah blah blah.”
“This mindset has always gotten to me to the point where every girl I meet I think she’s the ‘one.’ A simple greeting from any girl triggers my ‘hopeless romantic’ mode on.”
“Once, I think I have her attention and I get rejected, it just devastates me. I know I shouldn’t put women on a pedestal but they’re just so beautiful…”
And their answers are pretty interesting…
“Cultivate values. Understand that no one can make you happy. The best love is self-love holmes. Once you have been in a few LTR’s, you realize that getting a gf was never the thing that was going to fix you.'”
“Remember three important things:
1- The person you have to live with the longest is you, so love yourself.
2- Love like respect should be earned and never given.
3- Women WILL walk all over you if you are always available, be romantic once in a while its great. All the time and you are a sap. DO YOU WANT TO BE A SAP?”
Well, there you have it. Reddit says to control your feelings, you hopeless romantic. Love is complicated, yes. But sometimes you just need people like these to tell it to you straight. Because, you know, you don’t want to be a sap.