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ENTITY shares 13 reasons to break up with someone.

Just because you love someone, it doesn’t mean you should still be with them.

Relationships are tough. And more often than not, they end for reasons other than cheating. But how do you know if it’s time? Breaking up with someone you love is hard to do and figuring out when a relationship has fizzled out can be even harder.

Sometimes you just need a little advice. ENTITY – and the Reddit community – is here for you. Here are 13 reasons to break up with someone, according to Reddit.

ENTITY shares 13 reasons to break up with someone.

1. Maybe you’re not actually in love with your partner anymore. You just love your memories.

“When the memories mean more to you than the person standing in front of you.”

2. You’re just consumed with contempt.

“When either or both parties start exhibiting contempt for the other. Contempt is corrosive and there’s no recovery from the damage it inflicts.

“Any betrayal that the betrayed party can’t forgive. It’s best to make a clean break and part company right away.”

3. You spend more time waiting to get out of the relationship than actually enjoying it.

“When you’re arguing every day. When you feel like you’re trapped. When other men/women are appealing to you and the only reason you aren’t with them is because you are already in a relationship.

“When you are hiding issues from your friends whom you tell everything because you don’t want them to know how fucked up everything really is in your relationship and you don’t want the judgement. When you don’t speak because you feel that it will anger the other person and you don’t want to argue anymore. When you feel powerless.”

4. Respect is the most important part of a relationship for a reason…

“When you lose respect for your partner, or visa versa. When the relationship feels more like a chore instead of a pleasure.”

5. Breaking up with your partner sounds more appealing than staying.

“When the idea of breaking up is in your mind more often than the idea of staying with your SO.”

6. You no longer look forward to spending time together.

“When you dread the times that you’re supposed to hang out together.”

7. You have to make an effort to avoid fighting.

“It’s time to break up when you’re consciously behaving to keep peace or avoid a fight. That’s no way to live.”

8. And when you do fight, it’s about the same things.

“When you have tried to talk out your problems but they keep coming back.”

9. The relationship dynamic has changed.

“When it feels like you have become more of a parent than a companion.”

10. There’s no growth in the relationship.

“When you know it’s not going anywhere; if you want something long term but you can’t see yourself spending the rest of your life with them, get out. Otherwise, what’s the point?”

11. When you two really do just want different things.

“When you have determined that you and your partner have incompatible goals, or incompatible lifestyles.”

12. You don’t want to look that far ahead into the future anymore.

“You hesitate to make future plans with them.”

13. And lastly, your communication is at a standstill.

“A lack of enthusiasm in communication is a big red flag. Sometimes the other person has more important things going on and can’t spare as much of their time and energy to communication as normally, and that’s fine. But when they ignore you for an longer period of time, it starts to be a problem.”

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