Relationships March 31, 2018
No, you are not crazy.
You are not crazy for feeling a bit bummed if he hasn’t called or texted all day.
You’re not clingy if you text him to hang out and he leaves you hanging for upwards of five hours.
You’re not insecure if you’re wondering why he doesn’t show his affection for you more often.
You’re not selfish for wanting more time with him.
You’re not obsessed if you ask him what time of day he can usually hang out.
You’re not a pain for asking him to do a favor for you every blue moon, especially if you’ve done several for him.
You’re not needy if you tell him your love language.
You’re not pathetic for checking your phone every hour or so to see if he finally got off work…three hours after he said he would hang out with you after his shift ends.
You’re not psychotic if you don’t like how close he gets to other girls when he talks to them.
You’re not paranoid if he is constantly texting other people on his phone while he’s with you.
You’re not oversensitive if he constantly talks about how hot female celebrities are.
You’re not unconfident. You’re not emotionally dependent, and you’re not mentally unstable.
You’re not being prioritized. And that hurts.
However, you are justified in telling him how you need to be loved.
You are in the right if you straight up ask him, “Am I a priority to you?”
You are perfectly reasonable for asking him to not flirt with other girls, especially if you’re in an exclusive relationship.
You are normal if you give him some simple ultimatums like this: “This sounds harsh, but if you want to date me, quality time is super important. I need to spend more than two hours a week with my significant other if this is going to work.”
You have good reason to tell him “Hey, I get it Megan Fox is hot…but can we not talk about her all the time?”
You are wise if you reassess the health of your relationship.
You are brave if you decide that this relationship is not serving either of you the way it should, and you are even braver if you leave to find one that does.
You are not crazy for thinking you deserve more. In fact, you might be a little crazy if you think you deserve less.
